Ikalawang Yugto (ang pagpapatuloy ng mga normal na katangahan sa buhay)


Mga friends, back to normal mode muna tayo! Have a great week ahead!

68.) Bakit minsan, pagdating sa away, mas matapang ka pa sa gf/bf mo kesa sa totoong kaaway o kagalit mo?

69.) Wag mo papatagalin ang sama ng loob mo sa mahal mo.. Every little misunderstandings should be settled at once pag malamig na ang ulo ng bawat isa. And then you should not forget about it o kalimutan na lng kung naging ok na kau. You should still settle and close it formally. Dapat maging mature na at malalim ang pagtanggap sa nangyari.. In this way, maiiwasan ang sumbatan at ang pagkaipon ng sama ng loob which leads to panlalamig at pagkabawas ng fire sa relationship (asawa man o bf/gf)

70.) Sometimes, mas ok ang mag lihim kesa sa magsinungaling as long na wla k nmn ginwang masama na makakasira sa inyong dalawa. Ito ay para maiwasan ang away at ang sumbatan. Wag lng ggawing bisyo, remember, lahat ng sobra ay masama!

71.) Kung ang lahat ng sobra ay masama, bakit maraming mababait na sobrang yaman? at mga naging artista na yumaman dahil sobrang pangit? buhay tlaga noh? parang tanga lang… hehe

72.) Ang pagibig at paghanga minsan ay parang utot, kahit pigilin mo man paulit ulit, lalabas at lalabas pa din.

73.) Ayon sa isa sa mga paborito kong banda – ang Staind: “falling is easy, its getting back up that becomes the problem.. If you don’t believe you can find a way out you’ve become the problem..” i strongly agree.. do i need to elaborate and explain? i don’t think so, it says it all…

74.) “kung ano ang bawal, xa ang masarap” – Golden rule na ata ito ng buhay.. Pero, alam nio ba, may mga bawal na hindi masarap at hindi kaaya ayang gawin? eto ang mga example:  1.) “Bawal Tumawid, Nakamamatay!” (subukan mo lng cge tignan natin) 2.) “Bawal pumasok, may aso – nangangagat!” (cge nga try mo?) 3.) Do not Enter – 10000V! (aba nmn, pag sinubukan mo pa to!), etc..etc… (baka may maisip p kau dagdag nio lng sa comments! hehehe)

75.) kidding aside, ano ba ang itatwag mo dun sa gngwa pa din ung bawal? ang common na sinasabi mo eh tamad, mayabang, pasikat, sinungaling, mandaraya, etc.. hindi ba dapat ang unang itanong eh -bakit? bakit gngwa p din? this is with connection to #49, we should know first the history.. And then saka tayo magisip ng pwedeng gawin o ipayo para ndi n nila/niya ulitin. Ang pagpuna palagi sa mali ng kapwa mo ay senyales ng kakitiran at pagiging insecure.. Ano ang ggwin? once you know the history, dun ka makakaisp, its either family concern or personal or society.. but it should start within yourself/ourselves. The greatest advice you can give at first is to be a good example.. the rest will depend on the situations..Mas OK kung ginwa mo dati and you changed, makikita nila na pwede nmn pala at kaya….

76.) We always hear about how to move on or the best way to forget a broken heart experience is to move on.. For me, the word “move on” should not be an act or a necessity – it should be viewed and evaluate as the RESULT. How? because the first thing to do after a breakup/separation is you should learn first – ACCEPTANCE.. Pano ka makaka move on kung hindi mo pa din kayang tanggapin ang katotohanan na wala na kayo o wala na xa? The moving on part comes naturally kapag natanggap mo na ang lahat.. And this is the right way of letting go.. Kung magagawa mo to, believe me, its a relief and wont hunt you down for the longest time..Now thats the hardest thing there, it really takes time to fully accept everything specially when you are in the same office, school, neighborhood, etc or you see each other a lot… Do this little by little.. Start with simple things such as letters, dried roses, old gifts, old txt messages.. one by one until it becomes automatic..And as always, you have a family, friends and most importantly – GOD…

77.) A lot of people/readers/friends commented on list No. 2.. “Pwede din yun dapat sa mag asawa” Now here is what can i say kahit single p ko.. And this applies even to non-married couples (live in).. We all believe that LOVE is so much powerful that when it started to control you, you ended up being in list No. 19 or 20 (depends on where you landed there), and when you realize everything and woke up or ended up to No. 2 list, you gave up.. That’s the problem.. you gave up… Nakakalimutan natin na May inosenteng mga nilalang na nadadamay (the kids).. They dont deserve to grow up without a Father/Mother just because the two of you cant work out on your differences na nuong mag BF/GF p lng kayo eh dapat alam nio na db? Di nio ba napapansin sa TV? 90% of kids na ndi magnda ang ugali o kinhantungan ng buhay is because of lack of parental guidance starting from their toddler years? Mayaman man o mahirap walang excuses sa ganito..Communication is always the key….If you listen or read to some of the list’s above, everything is interconnected na pag nagwa niong 2 lahat, everything may seem to be normal and OK..Di po ako nagmamagaling, all i want to say po is what i think is right..this list can be so long and become a debate but if you think of it, the ending and conclusion will still be the same…just think about it…

78.) Masyado na tayong serious, break muna! hehe… Bakit mas matapang ang tao pag lasing? Eh kung lalabanan mo tlg yun ng parehas eh hindi halos tatama o mananalo sau dahil nga lasing, pero natatakot ka sa kanila.. hehe (maliban n lng kung may baril! nakupo!)

79.)  Bakit may mga driver ng jeep na kahit minimum lng ang binayad mo (ex. right now is 8 pesos), itatanong pa din sau kung “ILAN TO?”.. Tanungin mo din kaya ng “KASYA BA DALAWA?” haha..

Salamat po sa lhat nga mga nag cocomments and to my new readers thank you so much! Spread the word!

God bless!

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